HE'S LOCKED UP!

I know you all are getting tired of me and my dating situation.

But if you are tired of it just imagine how the hell I feel.

I believe that there is a shortage of good men out there.

But no matter how many of them I can't find.

I swear I won't look behind bars for one.



I had a friend of mine who told me about this guy she couldn't stand and she was so happy he was locked up. Then two months later she was in love when I asked her with who she said with the guy who was in jail.

Aw hell naw!

What? You're kidding right. NOPE she was serious.

Oh my God I had to hear how wonderful he was to her how he sent her all these beautiful poems how much he misses her and how he now knows that he wants to spend the rest of his life with her.

I was like and how many other women is he giving the same speech too......
Sending the same poems....
Come on don't be stupid....

She was sending him money....

Awaiting his phone calls & his letters....

I was in utter shock.....DISBELIEF......... I was cracking up....

No matter how desperate I get (I'm not THOUGH) I am not going to dedicate my life to a man who is behind bars during our courtship.....

He proposed to her and she accepted....


“A woman says to a man, "I haven't seen you around here." "Yes, I just got out of jail for killing my wife." "So you're single…."”



Most men in jail are arrogant, controlling, ****y, and dangerous.

Why would you want that to be your husband?

What's so sad is that a lot of women are attracted to "bad men" .

It's so much worse when the bad men are criminals.......and still in JAIL .......DUH!


You would be surprised if you knew how many available women are available to felons.

Some couples meet by visitation, letter writing, and others by phone.

Typically it tends to be the woman reaching out to the men, but why?

Bank robbers, murderers, rapists, and serial killers don't seem like people women would want to have a relationship with.


Many are attracted to the danger and all are fascinated if not infatuated with the bad man of their desires.

My friend was letting this man behind bars rule her life.

She would take trips 2-3 hrs to go see him....
Spend countless hours writing him and being with his family and kids....

Let her son who has never met this man talk to him and get advice from him and call his son his brother.

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG.......sorry

I don't get that.

As hard as I work to take care of my children and have them respect and admire me
I will not let some strange man tell my children to call them daddy.


Tell me what part of the game is that.



How does something like this happen to what seems a totally normal woman?

Well, most women that love bad men tend to have one thing in common; they are all insecure. They want someone to love them and they want to feel wanted. Usually they are lonely, don't have many friends, and often don't have strong relationships with family.

But, don't get it twisted because it can happen to anyone.

Even a married woman may fall for a man in jail.

Women who are attracted to murderers are called Hybristophiliacs

They are sexually excited by violent outrages performed on others.

These women often send ****ographic pictures of themselves to prisoners.

they get off on this.... That's a little sick to me but hey to each its own.

This is my opinion.

I am not saying I am right or that I am wrong this is just how I personally feel about this subject.

I get lonely sometimes, but if I date a man who is locked up HELL I'm still lonely.

If one of my readers has dated a man while he was locked up or if he is still locked up please share your story with me.

I can never be that eager to love.....

thats just me

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