How do I get closer to him without scaring him off?
Hey :) On bonfire night I met this really funny and nice guy. We hit if off big time and I was wondering how could I get closer to him? He goes to another school in the same town as my school is. We have the same sense of humor and things so that's good. I don't want to seem |
I don't want what my parents want for me!
I am from India, 16 years and am brought up in a strict Muslim family. My parents have already planned my future for me, get my degree and get married soon after that. But the thing is that I don't want that. I want to continue with my career and do a Ph.D (I will most probably |
I ended the affair with my friend's wife
Im in love with my friends wife. We have all been friends for a long time now. It all started when she asked me to take her out to play pool and drink some beer. She asked in fron of her husband and he didnt have a problem with it as long as he didnt have to go. She is |
I think I've lost the love of my life
please help, ive lost the love of my life, ive scared her off, im in love with this girl we have known each other for a couple of months she is definitely interested but i told her that i love her and she has started to pull back and i dont know what to do she means a lot to |
We want to be have a more physical relationship but not sure how to go about it
Allo... My girlfriend and I have been together for two years and love eachother very much...we're both 18... Surprisingly enough, we're not really physical people, lol physical meaning the full on making out and such, as we don't really focus on that, but rather on comm |
How can I show him that marriage can be a positive thing?
Me and my boyfriend have been together since March. We were together for 6 months 1 1/2 yrs before that, but he got scared and broke up with me. We now live together and have talked about marriage but he goes back and forth about whether he wants to or not. Lately he says he |
Last week he loved me, and now it's over??
Hey guys i would really appreciate some help with this one. If it is long i apologise but going into detail might make it clearer to you. A few weeks ago a dear friend of my got back in touch after a long time and after talking etc we realised we had feelings for eac |
Would having sex during a girl's period change her cycle?
I had sex with my girlfriend on the first day of her period. I Don't mean to say too much, but we were at it for a long time, i don't if that has any affect or not. But on the second day there was no bleeding at all. All i would like to know is what this could mean (pregnancy |
I want to get back with my bf. Can you guys give me some advice?
hey there, Recently my bf broke up with me which came as a shock because we seemed so happy together and weren't having problems or anything then after church one sunday he said that he really really liked me. I'm wondering if there's any way to get him back. I just can't se |
I feel bad because I rejected my cheating ex bf... please give me some encouragement!
i was with my ex for 2years and he really hurt me.. like he'd be talking to other girls, cheating..lying etc: but i stayed with him cos i was young naive and thought i was in love and the sex was great.. but i finally had the courage to leave him. is been nnearly2yea |
I think I might've been raped... or did I consent?
ok sooo im 16. my boyfriend, well ex, was 18 and we jus broke up. we got together 5 months ago. before i got with him, i never rly had the urge to drink alcohol or smoke anything. but in these last 5 months i have jus been wanting it more and more. anytime i drink i cant stop |
Should I meet an Online Friend?
Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the sound on mine does not always work, |
How do I approach the boy I like?
i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him as we r not as close as we |
We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?
Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want to clarify we are NOT having a |
Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?
Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to jump. I do have a full time job (in |
"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?
Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson he told me "sort your life out,yo |
I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?
I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i only started seeing this afte |
How can I feel better about my life/make my life better?
Sorry this is gonna be long but your help will be intensely appreciated! ;) Story of my life... Before 13 years old: I was known as fun-loving, outgoing, talented and had many interests- sports, acting, dancing, singing etc. though I did have the potential to become a b |
I am 4m pregnant and BF still wants to party every weekend. Please Help!
Dear agony aunt. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is not taking my feelings into consideration. All he wants to do is go out all the time and wheb I tell him I don't want to go and that I am staying home but he can go he gets angry and says hurtful things As well |
I'm depressed... he's depressed, and I'm paranoid that he'll leave me again... How can I overcome this?
Hey there, I've been um-ing and ah-ing whether or not to post this for a couple of days now because it sounds trivial but it's plaguing me, so here goes... To begin with, I'm 25 and I've had depression since I was about 16. It was a mixture of being bullied in school, bein |
Is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it?
hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been chattin for almost ages now. |
I feel called to love this girl... Should I wait or take the chance?
My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now, though I've known her for a |
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the person don't have sex or |
Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?
One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have gotten more involved. The last |
I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?
I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him a lot, but we are not right |
My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been married for 3 yrs together |
My wife is not able to conceive and is under huge pressure...
I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our common frinds have babies not and thats |
She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now
This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine which was her first boyfriend. |
I love him soo much but should I let him go... and did I push him away?
Hey, So I have been with the same guy for three years we started going out my sophomore year of high shcool an he was a senior. It was perfect he was the best boyfriedn and we always had fun together like we hung out all the time and surprisingly never got tired of each ot |
In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!
i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see on the road... hell ........ |
How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?
Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best friend comes in, we been best |
Feeling down about my friends... they only call when they need a favor or have a problem!
I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then change the topic so it |
My dad is getting divorced for a second time... Is it unrealistic to hope he could marry 3rd time lucky?
my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i am upset that my dad has to |
He said he was going to change and become less immature... but he never does
ok so this might be long. i have known this guy since i was little, but then i moved here and he stood in our home country(dominican republic). now about 9 years later i see him and he tells me he likes me. things move pretty quickly at least for me. i went to his house to |
I'm happy that he's interested to get back together with me but why now? And why's he acting like nothings changed?
So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided to leave him be. 7 weeks |
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life so I think that I am mature |
Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He is 4 years older than me, |
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf? |
Is it a sin to love your first cousin?
it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each other so much,,..but until such time |
Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?
should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance. |
How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?
hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just anything about this how do i get a |
Does their type of marriage work?
My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a break from her husband. She |
I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?
hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i did things with said 1 month ag |
What's the dating scene like in college?
Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i havent had that yet. I constantly |
Can you love someone you don't admire?
Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I could say that I've admired my |
Are all guys selfish and hateful?
[Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and cook him supper! he has do |
Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?
I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlfriend told of her feelings |
Am I a normal girlfriend?
please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they always text him how much they lov |
My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!
Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in effect. The issue i have, is |
Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!
Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I met this person. For the |
